Flash Menu

Hi,
I have worked on a flash menu with different page states on different frames. I am trying to have a situation where the fash move degins from a different frame on different pages so that it shows tha page state etc.
What is the best way of doing that?

I have tried the following
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or

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and the embed version
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Nothing seems to be working. Is there something I am doing wrong?
In the flash move, there is a stop on each of the frames (In the actionscript) if that changes anything.

Please help.

Thanks.
M